Love at First Sight or Blinded by Lust?

There are a number of relationships that start to form slowly after a couple of nights out or social events being attended. However, there also seems to be a select group of bonds that immediately start to take course within the first few seconds of conversation or even just with a couple of glances back and forth. These very relationships that spark from the first altercation between one another is by no means “untrue” since there are in fact sacred bonds that form rapidly, but when someone decides to choose a companion after the first encounter it is quite a risk and after going over the reading and truly delving into the moments leading up to Raymondin and Melusine’s first altercation, it is quite evident that this was more so a lustful connection more than it was a passionate bond between to souls.

Although one may argue that what Raymondin felt towards Melusine was pure and that the betrayal was just a mere innocent mistake, one also needs to realize that Raymondin was also incredibly hesitant to initiate the bond right from the beginning. Now, this sort of reaction is something that is common in people that are under pressure (like Raymondin in this instance) or it could also be that he was truly infatuated with Melusine from the beginning which is quite odd seeing as how they have had no true interactions beforehand. This hesitancy from Raymondin’s part can be seen in when they converse about their future intentions,

“‘That is well Raymondin, but there is something else.'” “Surprised, he could not stop himself from blurting out ‘You have me at your mercy!'” (Lebey,Knight 27)

This sentiment Raymondin has is something that can be defined as an action driven by lust and pressure which resulted in him committing to something he was not emotionally prepared for, further showcasing the consequences of following through with a relationship after just one altercation between one another. Not only does this turn out to be true after Raymondi is adamant on Melusine becoming his bride, but it later officially establishes itself when he betrays Melusine and breaks the vow he did not even take as seriously as he should have to begin with; only proving that he rushed out of lust and not because of actual love.

3 thoughts on “Love at First Sight or Blinded by Lust?

  1. Hi Omar, I also wondered about the relationship between Raymondin and Melusine, being a bond of love or lust. What was peculiar about the aftermath of him breaking his vow, was the not-so-vague allusions to divorce, in a country we’re the dominant religion was Roman Catholic, and divorce was unheard of. Perhaps this slow death of their relationship was the result of a disenchantment, or a medieval criticism on the restrictions of marriage.

  2. Hi Omar, I also wondered about the relationship between Raymondin and Melusine, being a bond of love or lust. What was peculiar about the aftermath of him breaking his vow, was the not-so-vague allusions to divorce, in a country we’re the dominant religion was Roman Catholic, and divorce was unheard of. Perhaps this slow death of their relationship was the result of a disenchantment, or a medieval criticism on the restrictions of marriage.

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